Perfectionist ....... or .......Immature

When an individual imagines of a world........which should be working as per his ideas......we call him idealist. And for such idealists, the world would then (if it was as per their wish) be a perfect place.

Is being perfectionist good or bad........
Is dreaming about a perfect world order an optimism or daydreaming..........

Well, as per me......for anything to be decided right or wrong, the simple funda is..........till the time, the matter is in your court, in your limits.....it is right. But as soon as your nose start entering somebody else's turf, it is not right. Till the time, your actions / words are not irritating / hurting someone, its right. But as soon as, someone either gets hurt or even irritated from your words / actions, you must know that it is time to exit the scene.

Coming back to "Being perfectionist - right or wrong"

eg. If a perfectionist who believes, you should have dinner at 8 and sleep by 10.........if he forces his thoughts on his family........and doesn't allow anybody else to be awake after 10..........he is being eccentric and immature (in his thinking that waking beyond 10 is bad).

Same funda applies - If an idealist, in search of a perfect world..........hurts someone........with words /actions............then that is his immaturity. Till then, its perfectionism !!